Saturday, January 5, 2008

worst highschool scene: break up

so, well i welcome this scene one more time in this highschool period.

i found some, mmm online advice to get through, but this is the part that i mostly done:

1. Think through everything in your head. Go ahead and mull it over, as many times as necessary, within reason. Consider all the reasons you two broke up. There had to have been a reason for it all to end, right? If there was a reason but it wasn't a good one, then understanding that you enjoyed one another for awhile, but it wasn't enough to make a life on can help you move forward.

2. Clean up! A breakup can signify a new beginning. Therefore, cleaning your personal space will leave you feeling refreshed and prepared for the new things to come. A mess can be overwhelming and depressing, and will just add to your stress level. The added bonus is that keeping busy with tidying your space doesn't require a lot of brain power, but does require just enough focus to keep you from recycling pain. Occupying yourself with these tasks designed to make your life better and easier will also occupy your mind enough to help you through the residual pain.

3. Think Positive Hey, now that you're not with your ex, you can do anything - date anyone, and not have to worry about them. You're free! Of course, don't forget about respecting other peoples' thoughts while feeling released and free. And always remember to be true to yourself


and some online tips:

1. Remember those old catch phrases: "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger", "Everything happens for a reason", "There are other fish in the sea" and likewise. When you go through a break up or some other emotionally challenging time in your life, you're actually getting closer to finding true happiness because you are getting to know your true inner self. This may or may not include marriage or romantic relationships... and that is okay, no matter what you do in life.



ssoo, every person has their own weakness, and so do i.


bye!

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